Oddity

[mitchy]

Those that know and love me (or at least tolerate me :)) will tell you I'm a pretty tactile sort of person, I love me some hugs and snugs. So random contact doesn't freak me out, quite the opposite in fact. However there's a woman at work who has habit of getting my attention by putting her hand on my shoulder. Now this in and of itself is fine - she sits behind me, she knows I won't hear her unless I have some clue she's talking to me, so it's actually thoughtful of her to get my attention first. (Aside - my life would be considerably easier if more people made sure I was actually listening/capable of hearing them before talking to me but that's a rant for another day).

So I have no problem with method of initiating conversation. But she leaves her hand on my shoulder while she talks to me and for some reason, it's really freaking me out. I start to squirm and I want to knock her hand away and yell "Get off!!" I'm talking bugs-under-the-skin, want-to-run-screaming levels of twitchiness. WTF?? This is so not like me, I am seriously perplexed. I like the woman, she's one of the most inoffensive people in the office, so it's not that. *boggles* Obviously something is triggering the fight or flight response but I'm damned if I know what.

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[mitchy.livejournal.com]

This sounds like a really good idea. Thank you! I shall give it a try and report back! :)